My Little Champ

There is something in his eyes

Which wants me to love

And I profusely give.

There is something in his eyes

Which wants me to hear

And I carefully listen

There is something in his eyes

Which abysmally pours love

And I get dumbstruck the way he expresses

There is something in his eyes

Which wants me to be with him always

And I am trying to be my best.

There is something in his eyes

Which tells me “U R my Mom”

And I see him as MY Little Champ

There is something in his eyes

Which tells me the pain of missing

And I wrap my thoughts around him.

There is something in his eyes

Which tells “Please leave Me”

And that is the only thing I can never oblige.

Fights

Course of true love, never did run smooth.

Love is a heaven which is capable of giving fights, tears and pain like hell.

I love people. I’ve had fights with every loved one of mine. If not fight, a little mis- understanding at least. Yes. I feel little mis –understandings are required to know much about that person.  There are times, when I cannot understand about my own self. Then how can I expect my little brain to understand others???? Or how can I expect others to understand me better???

A relationship’s strength is not measured with the number of days spent together. It is measured as how easily you can turn back to normal even after a big fight.  When you do not have a fight, it doesn’t mean you have understood each others well. Perhaps, with fights you tend to understand the other person better.

I’ve seen people getting hurted even with simple words of their loved ones. They would   not have said it seriously. They would not have meant what they said. The other person also knows this. But still they feel the hurt. They fight for petty thing and make it a cold war. When you know the other person well, why does their simple word, which was not even uttered with an intention to hurt you, should hurt you?? It just shows you have not understood your friend/ loved ones well. You need to understand them still better.

I’ve seen people cannot bear the anger of their loved ones. Most often people are ready to accept love when poured at them. But not the hurting, not the scolding, not the words uttered in anger. When you are ready to accept love, be ready to accept pain too. No love can diminish with a simple fight. No love can be missed with a simple fight. When you are ready to give up love, just hold down. Think for a while, doesn’t their love weigh more than their hurting words? Anger is also an outcome of love. Why do people fail to understand that behind every fight with their loved ones, there lays a hidden love? Fight is the means which they have chosen to express love. Mode chosen may be wrong but reason behind is LOVE. When this is understood, no relationship breaks.

 

Feel that hidden love. Cherish those little fights. Find love everywhere. Stay Loved!! 

Be Yourself !!

Hi Friends,

I have seen people adjusting to get love. Everyone tend to change for their loved ones. Changing for loved ones is not wrong. But do these changes last long?  Well, if it is a from-heart- change out of realization, perhaps the change will last longer. But when the change is to satisfy others would that last long?  When you are forcefully trying to change yourself, will you be happy with that change? Truth is, you pretend to be normal with that change, and when it is boring you go back to yourself.

Many people fail to understand that when you forcefully change yourself and get love, you are not getting that love for ‘whom you actually are instead it is for who you act like’. The love you get is true. But it is not for you. Isn't that better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not?

Accept people as they are. Problem with human mind is –We don’t see things as they are, we see things as we are .Don’t try to change them. Each individual is unique. There may be similarities but not alike. Don’t expect people to play someone’s role. They would be best when they play their own roles.

As we all know, Change is the only thing which cannot be changed. Each one of us undergoes change. Change in appearance, in behaviour, in attitude, in character, in level of maturity and everything. The changes should be a natural one. With each phase of life people change, those changes are natural. Those changes are to be cherished.

Don’t force yourself to change for someone. Rather be honest to yourself than to impress someone. People who truly love you will always stay with you. I am blessed that I have people who truly love me and people who accept me as I am.

Life is short. Nothing lasts forever

So live it up, drink it down and laugh it off.

Avoid the bull shit,

Take chances and never have regrets

Because at one point, everything you did was

Exactly what you wanted  J