You cannot please everyone.

Hi Friends,

  

The Picture above conveys a wonderful message. Isn't it?

You can be the ripest, Juiciest peach in the world and there is still going to be somebody who hates peaches.

You cannot please everyone you see. There are people who dislike you, for whatever you do. They’ll hate you if you are pretty. They’ll hate you if you are not. They’ll hate you for what you lack and they’ll hate you for what you got. You will never be good enough for some people. Ask yourself “ Is this your problem or theirs??”

 When you try to be everything for everyone else, you lose yourself and that is what they wanted in first place.  If you find yourself constantly trying to prove your worth to someone else, you've already forgotten your value.  Don’t do this to yourself.

Never compare yourself with anyone. Don’t think you want to have so many people loving you as someone else does have. Social comparison is the thief of Happiness. Give your best .Love everyone. Don’t try to be like someone, they aren't you.

Remember, Confidence isn't walking into a room with your nose in the air, and thinking you are better than everyone else; it’s walking into a room and not having to compare yourself to anyone else in the first place.

Highly confident people have no interest in pleasing everyone they meet.  They are aware that not all people agree on things, and that’s just how life works.  They focus on the quality of their relationships, instead of the quantity of them.   When you let go of the need to impress everyone, that's when you begin to be truly impressive to the few people who actually matter. 

Treat yourself as the most important person in the world, and treat others as you treat yourself. Having said this, never judge anyone. Judging a person doesn't show who they are it just shows who you are. So pay close attention, and respect people for who they are and not for whom you want them to be.  Loving and respecting others means allowing them to be themselves, whether you choose to be a part of their life or not.

Start noticing what you like about others and tell them.  Having an appreciation for how amazing the people around you are leads to good places – productive, fulfilling, peaceful places.  So be happy for those who are making progress.  Cheer for their victories.  Be thankful for their blessings, openly.  What goes around comes around, and sooner or later the people you’re cheering for will start cheering for you. Most important don’t do this to please them, do this because you will feel good after appreciating and encouraging someone. This seems Selfish right? Well, there is no mistake in being selfish when your selfishness is bringing joy to people around you.

Stop living to please everyone and start living in a way which pleases the most important person in the world that is “YOU”. Just be yourself. It will be good to know who is down with that.