The immature human mind often mistakes one for
the other, or assumes that the greater the love, the greater the jealousy -
when in fact, they are completely incompatible;
Possessiveness is needed in a relationship .But
to what extent?
It depends on the person whom you love. If the
person whom you love feels that your possessiveness is a sign of love and care,
then it is fine. But if the person feels possessiveness as a bar on his/her freedom
then please give them their space. Otherwise it will break the relationship.Letting them to be little free is always better than letting the relationship ruined. Giving Freedom always sounds good than getting Liberation.
You have a fear that someone might take away your loved ones from you. Possessiveness is nothing but the outcome of such fear.Understand that excessive possessiveness/jealousy
doesn't mean how much you love them; rather it shows how much you dislike
yourself.
The image says a message. Look at the hands, it
has sunlight and reflects love. As long as you gently keep your hands open and
allow it to remain there, it will always be there. But when you think of
possessing it by closing your fingers around, you‘ll have only darkness and
empty hand. This is how love is. When people love they try to posses and own them fully.They expect
and demand. As a result just like the sunshine vanishing from the palm, love
disappears. For love is meant to be free, you cannot change its nature. Let
your loved ones to be free .Give them their space.
Possessiveness hinders your individuality
While Love cherishes each other’s individuality
Possessiveness is selfish
While love is selfless
Possessiveness control the other person
While Love understands and allows other person’s
ideas to take shape
Finally wanna conclude by saying this :
Trust a person to that extent where he/she feel guilty to cheat you and care for a person to that extent where he/she fears to lose you.
