Possessiveness

The immature human mind often mistakes one for the other, or assumes that the greater the love, the greater the jealousy - when in fact, they are completely incompatible; 

Possessiveness is needed in a relationship .But to what extent?

It depends on the person whom you love. If the person whom you love feels that your possessiveness is a sign of love and care, then it is fine. But if the person feels possessiveness as a bar on his/her freedom then please give them their space. Otherwise it will break the relationship.Letting them to be little free is always better than letting the relationship ruined. Giving Freedom always sounds good than getting Liberation.

You have a fear that someone might take away your loved ones from you. Possessiveness is nothing but the outcome of such fear.Understand that excessive possessiveness/jealousy doesn't mean how much you love them; rather it shows how much you dislike yourself. 

The image says a message. Look at the hands, it has sunlight and reflects love. As long as you gently keep your hands open and allow it to remain there, it will always be there. But when you think of possessing it by closing your fingers around, you‘ll have only darkness and empty hand. This is how love is. When people love they try to posses and own them fully.They expect and demand. As a result just like the sunshine vanishing from the palm, love disappears. For love is meant to be free, you cannot change its nature. Let your loved ones to be free .Give them their space.

Possessiveness hinders your individuality

While Love cherishes each other’s individuality

Possessiveness is selfish

While love is selfless

Possessiveness control the other person

While Love understands and allows other person’s ideas to take shape

Finally wanna conclude by saying this :

Trust a person to that extent where he/she feel guilty to cheat you and care for a person to that extent where he/she fears to lose you.