Acceptance

“Nothing comes easy in this world. Even SANTA comes with a clause”.

When such is the plight in the world the greatest gift you can give someone is the gift of unconditional love and acceptance. It is not only a gift to the person whom we accept. It is a gift we give ourselves too. Yes !  Our Happiness is directly proportional to acceptance and inversely proportional to expectations. The more we learn to accept the more people the more we tend to lead a happy life.

Things can be changed. Situations can be changed. But I would say we don’t have any right to change people. You should either accept people for who they are or start living without them in your life. Everyone is a version. There is nothing neither absurd nor normal. Normal is just an illusion. The spider web which seems normal to the spider  is a chaos to a fly. 

You must love a person in such a way that the person you love feels free. Acceptance is the only way to make them feel free.

Acceptance is the one true thing which everyone longs for and every individual craves for. For any relationship acceptance is often more important than understanding. When you accept people, they are real. There is no room for lie. No room to fake.

I have tried this. You would really be astounded to see how a person feels comfortable with you and how true a person can turn out to be. You would really see the better version of that person each day when you start accepting them for what they are.

As Wes Angelozzi rightly said  “Go and love someone exactly as they are. And then watch how quickly they transform into the greatest and truest version of themselves. When one feels seen and appreciated in their own essence, one is instantly empowered. “

Try this from today and let me know how it works J

I am Back !!

Hi Friends,

I feel great. I feel fresh. And I am back again to blow your mind:-P

I thank each one who sent me messages to write a post. You people awe me with your love :-)

I have so many stories to share with you. To start with here is a small story.

One day a mother with her 5 year old kid went to a grocery shop. This kid has very obedient that the shopkeeper was amazed with her behaviour. He opened a box full of chocolates and asked the kid to take as much as it wants from it.  The kid graciously denied to take chocolates and went behind her mother. The shopkeeper again forced the kid to take some chocolates. This time her mother too asked the kid to take chocolates which that uncle was offering. Mother was really surprised when the kid denied it second time even after when she herself allowed accepting the offer.

The Shopkeeper uncle was very much moved by obedience of this kid and he took a handful of chocolates and forced them to the kid’s hand. The Kid accepted this time with a thanking smile. While walking back home still unable to recover from the surprise, Mother asked “How come you are so obedient today? And why did you deny to take twice but accepted the third time? “

The Kid chuckled and said “I denied twice because that uncle asked me to take as much as I want. If I had taken the chocolates with my hands it would be very less .Now that uncle himself gave with his big hands so I could get more”. She grinned saying this.

This story has something to learn isn't it?. The story is short but it has a huge message . We wish for petty things and get disappointed when they don’t happen. Universe is generous. It gives you more than you desire .It gives what you deserve. Remember! You deserve more than you desire. Without knowing this we ponder upon petty things.

Accept life as it comes. Cosmos has a bigger plan for you than yours. Practice gratitude .Always count on your blessings. Never forget that Happiness is your natural state of being. 

You are Amazing and deserve every bit of wonderful thing that comes to you J . 

Nanbenda

Hi all,

Few people are always special in your life. It does not matter even when they don't consider you so. Friends fight just to make the relationship strong. Course of true love never did run smooth. It applies to friendship too :-) Today this post is dedicated to such a friend of mine :-)

There is that one person whom you will never get over

No matter how long it’s been

About such friend I am writing herein

Many Men have always been there in all stages

As brothers and cousins

You are My First and Best Male Friend

Whom I  will celebrate for ages.

I always admire you my friend

It is only today my thoughts are penned

I don’t remember the first day we met

But the first Birthday wish you made being oceans away

Is the one I can never forget.

I can never describe what your friendship means in my life

Your words and support for me is always rife

You stand by me in everything I do

In a unique way your hands would come even if I skid

I am rich with my Friends I agree

But you made me wealthy

You are there in my every laughter

When I cry you are the comforter

In my life for the friendship between a guy and a girl

Your friendship has a significant stride

You are a friend and a guide I boast with Pride.

I have made blunders out of Ignorance

Not just in one Instance

You can understand even the unsaid sorry

Because you showed me that this relationship is beyond words

 A Friend in Need is a friend indeed

Your friendship is the one I would concede and plead

Happy Birthday Sagaa!!